Prostate Massage Techniques: How to Do Prostate Massage

Prostate massages are one of the coolest things I’ve tried. In this article, you’ll learn how to do prostate massage that gives you the best results. I’ll share with you the prostate massage techniques that always work for me.

There are two reasons why you may want to have a prostate massage:

  • Medical
  • Sexual

Massaging the prostate has some medical benefits.

It helps ease painful ejaculation. There could be some blockages in a man’s reproductive system. The only way to clear those blockages is to have a prostate massage.

Men also use prostate massages to treat erectile dysfunction. There are other treatments for treating erectile dysfunction, but prostate massage is one of the most effective.

Swelling or inflammation in the prostate may also affect your urine flow. If you feel some pains while urinating, having a prostate massage may help you clear that.

Another main reason why I like having a prostate massage is the sexual sensation it gives me. It’s one of the best feelings. It’s a great form of sex.

Since I had my first prostate massage years ago, I never miss it again because I now do it regularly.

So, are you ready to start massaging your prostate? Do you want to know the best way to do it?

I’ll be sharing the best prostate massage techniques with you in this article.

Let’s get started.

Two Prostate Massage Techniques That Work Best

These two prostate massage techniques are the best ways to do it. There are no better techniques out there. After learning and trying the two methods I’ll be sharing with you soon, you’ll be able to have the best results from the massage.

What are these two ways?

Here they are:

  • Anal toys
  • Anal sex

How can you use anal toys and anal sex to massage the prostate?

Prostate Massage Technique # 1: How to Do Prostate Massage with Anal Toys

Prostate Massage with Anal Toys

I’m sure you know that there are lots of sex toys out there today. Some are made for the anus. Some are not.

After buying lots of toys over the years for different purposes, I’ve come to realize the importance of buying an anal toy for the purpose the manufacturer has created it for.

For example, if a toy is meant for stimulating the nipples, you should only use it for that. If a toy is for clitoral stimulation, you should only use it on your clitoris. And if a toy is made for the anal sex, you should only insert it into the anus. That’s how you get the best results with most toys available today.

Step 1: Buy an anal toy

There are lots of anal toys in the market today. Ironically, most of them aren’t that good for anal sex. Some of them are made by fake manufacturers. You should avoid buying the wrong toys.

I’ve written reviews about the best anal toys to buy before. To help you make the best purchasing decision, I’ll quickly list some of my recommended anal toys.

Paloqueth Male Vibrating Prostate Massager Sex Toy

Paloqueth Male Vibrating Prostate Massager Sex Toy

This is one of my favorite toys for massaging the prostate. It’s the best at what it does. The toy finds the prostate easily without much work from you. The toy gives you the best results whether you’re massing your prostate for medical or sexual reasons.

Most gay men I know recommend Paloqueth Male Vibrating Prostate Massager Sex Toy because it makes them comfortable when they use it. Nothing beats comfort when you’re using an anal toy. If the anal toy doesn’t make me comfortable, I simply don’t buy it.

It’s also worth noting that Paloqueth is the best-selling anal sex toy on Amazon. It’s the best-seller for a reason. It gives men the comfort they want, and the kind of feeling they want to get.

Versa Sex Machine

Versa Sex Machine

This is a machine that’s made for anal sex. It’s a great machine for massaging the prostate.

The machine comes with a silicone dildo and a remote control that gives you more freedom to control where you massage in the anus.

The sex machine makes 300 strokes per minute. That makes it a powerful machine for massaging the prostate. The machine hasn’t failed me once in the past 5 years I’ve been using it. It’s one of the best anal toys around today.

Paloqueth 3 in 1 Male Prostate Massager

Paloqueth 3 in 1 Male Prostate Massager

This is another prostate massager from the Paloqueth brand. The Paloqueth brand makes the best anal toys for massaging the prostate. No wonder gay men like their products.

Paloqueth 3 in 1 Male Prostate Massager is different from the number one anal toy I gave you above. Although the first one is the best-selling anal toy in the world right now, this massager has more features and contains some powerful vibrations that will make you feel so good.

This toy is very smooth. It feels like the human flesh going into your anus. It doesn’t feel like a toy at all. The reason why I decided to include it on this list of my favorite anal toys for massaging the prostate is that it’s super quiet. It works in silence mode – much quieter than the first Paloqueth anal toy given above.

These three are my favorite anal toys. You can buy one of them to start with. I must note that the Versa Sex Machine is more expensive because it gives you more freedom.

Step 2: Buy a lubricant

You need a lubricant. You shouldn’t insert anything into your anus without lube. Doing that could cause a tear in your anus skin. You surely don’t want that to happen. That’s why I recommend you buy a lube.

There’re lots of different types of lubricants out there. You need a personal lubricant that’s made for the anus. It’s not every lubricant you see is made for the anus. Some are made for the vagina. The anus needs a lube that’s thicker.

The reason why is that the anus doesn’t produce fluids as the vagina does. A thicker lube will last longer and will ensure that you don’t have to reapply every five minutes.

So, what are the best anal lubricants available in the market today?

Just like I recommended my favorite top three anal toys above, I’ll also list my top three anal lubricants. I want you to know that I’ve bought and tried each lube, and they are effective and feel amazing in the anus.

Amity Jack’s Premium Bang Oil Personal Lubricant

Amity Jack’s Premium Bang Oil Personal Lubricant

Amity Jack’s Premium Bang Oil Personal Lubricant is a 100% percent silicone-based lube.

Lubricants that are made of silicone are the best for the anus. They are thicker and tend to last longer. A few drops of silicone-based lube can last for more than 30 minutes with your anal toy.

We also have water-based lubricants. But they aren’t good for anal sex. Water-based lubes tend to dry quickly because they are very light.

Wet Platinum Silicone-Based Premium Personal Lubricant

Wet Platinum Silicone-Based Premium Personal Lubricant

The Wet brand makes the best lubricants, and this lube is just one of them. I’m a big fan of the brand. I’ve been using their lubricants for over 10 years.

Wet has various types of lubes that are made for different purposes. They make lubes for vaginal sex, anal sex, and even oral sex.

When you’re buying a Wet lubricant, make sure its name is Wet Platinum Silicone-Based Premium Personal Lubricant. That is their best lubricant for the anus.

When you apply this lube into the anus, it helps your toy slips in with ease. Without a high-quality anal lubricant like Wet Platinum Silicone-Based Lube, you can’t penetrate the anus to massage the prostate.

Astroglide X Premium Waterproof Silicone Personal Lubricant

Astroglide X Premium Waterproof Silicone Personal Lubricant

Astroglide X is another premium silicone-based lubricant that’s made for massaging the prostate. It’s one of the best I’ve tried. This lubricant is even thicker than others. The lube keeps the anus slippery, making it easy for the toy to go in easily and find the prostate.

The feeling you’ll get from using this toy is amazing.

If you want, you can use the toy to play in the water. With this lubricant, I’ve used my toy to massage my prostate in the bathtub, shower, and even outdoors in the swimming pool.

Astroglide X is made with the high-quality ingredients that keep the skin inside the anus smooth and soft. When you use this lube with one of the toys I recommended above, you’ll be able to pleasure your prostate with ease and feel calm in the process.

I highly recommend that you buy any of these lubes with any of the toys above. Before you use those toys, make sure you apply enough lube in your anus. Doing that will help the toy slips in without causing discomfort during and after the massage.

Step 3: Take a deep breath and relax your mind

relax your mind

You can’t massage the prostate if your mind is racing everywhere. It’s just not possible. You’ll only get the best massage when your mind is well-relaxed.

Get your body in a perfect place where there aren’t any distractions around you. I recommend doing this on the couch. Ensure that the TV is turned off. If your smartphone notifications are on, it may be difficult to relax your mind.

So, turn off notifications and relax your mind. Take some deep breaths.

After you’ve done this and you’re sure that your mind is relaxed enough, that is when you should move to the next and final step of this prostate massage technique.

Step 4: Grab your anal toy and penetrate gently

Here comes the moment you start to penetrate your anus to locate and massage your prostate. Make sure that your anus is well lubed. Put some lube on your toy too.

anal toy

Insert the toy gently.

Immediately you hit your prostate, your body will feel some amazing sensations through the anus. You may even moan a bit. That’s a sign that you’ve hit the prostate.

The prostate is an amazing place to touch. If you’re inserting something into your anus for the first time, make sure you do it very gently. Don’t rush.

It may take some time to get to the place where the prostate is if you take it slow, though the prostate isn’t that far away from the entrance of the anus. It’s about 0.19 inches. So, I expect you to hit it immediately.

The prostate is what some people call the G-spot of the male. Men get the kind of fun women get when their G-spot in the vagina is hit.

Your anal toy should help you find the prostate quickly. It isn’t that hard to locate when you use the right anal toy, anal lube, and you make sure that your mind is well-relaxed too.

Step 5: Clean up and wash your anal toy

After you’re through massaging your prostate, it’s essential that you clean up and wash your anal toy. The anal lube you used contains some chemicals. You need to wash them off your body before they stick to the walls of your anus.

Although the anal lubricants I recommended above won’t cause any harm to your body, it’s still important that you wash them off.

You can take a cool shower after massaging your prostate. It helps your body stay calm as you get the real benefits of the massage.

You should also make sure that you wash your anal toy. The anus contains a lot of bacteria. Some of these bacteria would be transferred to the toy you use during the massage. So, it’s important you clean the toy with some water and anti-bacterial soap to avoid bacteria from building up on the toy.

Prostate Massage Technique #2: How to do Prostate Massage with the Penis

Let’s talk about the second prostate massage technique, which is also very effective for giving the body some amazing sensations.

Gay men are more comfortable with this technique. If you want to massage the prostate for medical reasons, you can go the anal toy route. But for gay men, this is how we have sex. This is how we generate the best sensations in the body.

So, do you want to know how to do prostate massage with the penis?

It’s easy. All you have to do is follow the steps revealed below.

Step 1: Get a lubricant

In the first technique, you’ll notice that getting an anal toy is number one. In this second technique, you don’t need any toy for penetration because you have your partner’s penis.

Your partner’s penis is what you need to pleasure yourself. Your partner’s penis will give you the most amazing feeling you need.

But before your partner could insert his penis into your anus, you need lube.

Lubricants are very important when you’re massaging the prostate with the penis. Failure to use lube could lead to bruises both inside the anus and on the penis itself. I’m sure that you want to avoid that. That’s why I recommend you get a high-quality anal lube.

Above, I recommended some lubricants for playing with anal toys. I’ll be recommending those lubes again because they are the best for massaging the prostate. They help the prostate feel cool when something soft and smooth like a penis touches it.

Here’s a quick list of the best anal lubes for massaging the prostate:

  • Amity Jack’s Premium Bang Oil Personal Lubricant
  • Wet Platinum Silicone-Based Personal Lubricant
  • Astroglide X Premium Waterproof Silicone Personal Lubricant

Buy any one these lubricants, and you’ll have the best lube for a great prostate massage.

Step 2: Use a condom

Use a condom

A condom is vital to having a safe prostate massage with your partner. This is anal sex. Like vaginal sex, it isn’t safe unless you use a condom.

It’s easier to contract a sexually transmitted disease through anal sex than vaginal sex.  Contracting HIV through anal sex is eighteen times higher than through vaginal sex.

That’s why you need to protect yourself during the act. Ask your partner to wear a condom.

And note that you shouldn’t put lube inside the condom. The penis will be moving inside the condom instead of the anus. It’ll be hard to find the prostate if the lube is applied in the condom.

Apply some lube directly in the anus. Your partner doesn’t need to apply lube on his penis if he’s wearing a condom. Condoms come with enough lube in them.

Step 3: Empty your bowel

Empty your bowel

If your bowel is full before massaging the prostate, make sure you go into the toilet and empty your bowel.

If you don’t do this, you may feel like defecating on your partner’s penis during the massage.

Pooping your partner’s penis will be very unpleasant to you both. So, get in the toilet and defecate before the activity.

Have a nice shower before the act to help your body stay calm and refreshed. Put some water in the anus to get out all current dirt.

Step 4:  Use an extra sheet

Use an extra sheet

Don’t massage the prostate directly on the bedsheets or couch.

What happens when you do this is that some liquid that comes out of the anus during sex would settle on the place where you just had your prostate massage. This could produce some unpleasant smells.

If you’re like me, you don’t want to be washing your bedsheet or cleaning your couch each time you have a massage on it.

So, get a towel.

Place the towel down below your butt so that it could get all the liquid coming out from the anus during sex.

Step 5: Use the right position


Massaging the prostate in certain sex positions is hard.

The missionary may be a popular sex position for having vaginal sex. But when it comes to locating and massaging the prostate, it’s a worse position to try.

Getting the position right is key to massaging the prostate. You can’t massage the prostate well in some positions like the missionary.

Doggystyle is the winner for me when it comes to massaging the prostate. It finds and hit the prostate directly. It feels amazing when you massage the prostate using the doggy style position.

Cowgirl is another cool position if the receiver wants to control the speed of the massage.

For me, doggy style is just the best. It makes things a lot easier for my partner and me.


These are the two best techniques for massaging the prostate. They are easy, and they make the experience more remarkable. Depending on which one you’re comfortable with, you’ll surely get the best fun out of the experience.

Now you know how to do prostate massage that doesn’t suck. These are the best prostate massage techniques. There isn’t any other technique that’s better than the ones I’ve revealed to you in this article.

Make sure you buy some of the anal toys or anal lubricants I recommended in this article.

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