You could have better sex, better organisms and a better relationship with your partner. Figuring everything out through sex alone is hard. That’s why you need a vibrator.
I’ll assume that you’ve gotten your first vibrator and can’t figure out a way to use it. I feel your frustration. I felt the same when I got my first vibrator.
Using a vibrator may look easy for people who haven’t tried it before. But it’s not. You don’t have to worry about that because, in this article, you’re going to learn how to use a vibrator for the first time to get better orgasms and learn more about your body.
Are you ready? Let’s get started.
Figured out what your vibrator is designed to do
First, you need to figure out what the vibrator does best. What’s that thing the manufacturer designed it to do? You shouldn’t pick up a vibrator and start using it immediately. You’ll need some important details that tell you about the vibrator itself. You need to know what you can and can’t do with it.
Pick up the manual that comes with the vibrator and read it. What does it say about the vibrator? You should be able to learn what the vibrator is designed to do from reading the manual.
There are various vibrators in the market today, and they are designed to do different things. Some are made for clitoral stimulation. Some are made for g-spot stimulation. Some are made for nipples stimulation. Some are made to stimulate every inch of the vagina and anus.
Turn on the vibrator and test-run it
After learning what the vibrator is designed to do, it’s time to test run it. The purpose of doing this is to know if the vibrator works well. Is everything working normally based on what’s inside the manual? You should know the answer to that question after testing it.
Test different settings and speed according to what you’ve just read in the manual. Do they work fine? Are there some problems?
If you have issues that weren’t specified in the manual, it means the vibrator isn’t a good one. You may want to get a replacement or a refund from the merchant. Continue testing the vibrator until you’ve tested everything.
You can move on to the next phase if there aren’t any problems with the vibrator.
Use a lubricant
You shouldn’t use any sex toy without lubes. Lubes are very important when it comes to toys. Lubes bring out the best in toys. You’ll enjoy your new toy when you use lubricant.
I’m referring to a personal lubricant here. Some people use body lotions or creams and call them lube. Sorry, those aren’t lubricants. You need real personal lubes.
There are two types of lubricant: water and silicone-based lubes.
Because most vibrators are made of silicone, you can’t use a silicone-based lube with them. It’s highly recommended that you get a water-based lube for your new sex toy. You can use them with almost any sex toy. And they are generally safe for the body.
Set the mood
You’ve tested your new vibrator. I’ll assume that it works well. You’ve poured some lube on it. It’s time to move to the next phase: You need to set the mood.
Don’t just start playing with yourself immediately. You want to spend some time with yourself. You need privacy. The door should be locked. What if the person next door opens the door without notice? You don’t want to be caught off-guard.
The windows should be closed. Nobody should be able to see anything through it. Getting caught playing with yourself can be awkward.
You need to feel safe in your mind. Feel relaxed. Put away objects that could distract you.
Rub on your clitoris
The clit is an organ made just for fun. It’s the best place to start using your new toy. Touch the clit!
When people speak about the clit, they often refer to the little nub that protrudes at the top of the labia. The clitoris extends beyond that. The clit goes deep into the vagina. It extends along the two shafts at either side of the vagina.
Start by rubbing the vibrator on the clitoris. Make it go up and down. Make sure your mind is well relaxed as you do this.
Start slow
Don’t rush. You need to start slow when you’re using a new toy you haven’t used before. You didn’t start walking by running. You started by taking one step at a time, walking very slowly. The same logic applies to vibrators too.
Ensure that the vibrator itself is working at a lower power setting. The speed should be the slowest. Even though I’ve bought and used lots of sex toys, I still start slow when I use a new toy I just got. That’s how I learn it and teach my body to get used to the new toy.
Increase the speed and pace as your body gets used to the new toy. Slowly, your body will start to feel the excitement the vibrator offers. You’ll start to love every move you make with the vibrator.
Do Foreplay
You should be using one hand to operate the dildo. The other hand shouldn’t be idle. Use it for foreplay!
Use it to play with your nipples. Use it to rub your body. Use it to touch other sensitive parts of your vagina. As you do these, every part of your body will start to react to it.
Foreplay is key to building up sexual tension. It should also be part of self-play. If your partner is controlling the vibrator, ask he/she to use the other hand to play with your body.
Ask your partner to talk some dirty to you. Vibrators are the coolest tools I know for getting better orgasms. But they work more effectively when you add some form of foreplay too.
Explore penetration
If the vibrator can go into the vagina, insert it there. Most vibrators are made of silicone materials which are considered safe for the body. They won’t cause any harm when you insert them into the vagina. When you do insert it, you only have to make sure that you wash the vibrator with antibacterial soap and water after.
Most vibrators can go into the vagina. After you’ve played with the clit for some time, the next step is to penetrate a little bit with the vibrator. If you have a dildo vibrator, for example, it will stimulate every inch of the vagina.
Try different settings
I’m sure you’ve become familiarized with the vibrators’ different settings from reading the manual and test-running it. Now is the time to try all those settings you discovered back then.
The vibrator should come with different speeds and vibrations for you to play with. Try each combination and see how it feels. Maybe by now, you’ve already orgasm, or you are about to do that.
You can pause a bit to learn more about the vibrator. The first time you use the vibrator is to learn about it, how it works and the things you can and can’t do with it. You want to know the limitation of the vibrator and the kind of excitement it could give you. So, hold off orgasm and try different settings.
Touch the sensitive parts of the vagina
As you penetrate with the vibrator, you’ll feel that some parts are extremely sensitive. They make you moan when they are touched. Focus more on these parts. Play around these parts to see if you can get different sensations from them. Try different speed and vibration settings on the most sensitive parts inside your vagina.
Go deep as long as the vibrator can go. And don’t forget to come back to the clitoris. The clitoris is one of the most sensitive parts of the vagina. Try different settings available on the vibrator on the clit.
Conclusion
Using a vibrator is the fastest and easiest way to achieve orgasms. Some people who find it difficult to orgasm in normal penetration find vibrators to be the best solution for them.
Vibrators can be used for both vaginal and anal sex. They are quite effective for both. So, if you like anal sex, don’t be afraid to insert that toy into your vagina.
I believe that now you know how to use a vibrator for the first time.
There are so many different vibrators out there. After learning to use the current one you have right now, you should buy some more. Vibrators are affordable. I wrote a review about the best vibrators. You should check it out.
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