According to various studies, the average erected penis size is between 4.5 – 5.5 inches. I’ll say 5-inch is the average.
Is a 5-inch penis small and should you even care about it at all?
This article will answer these questions and any other you may have. You’ll learn the smart and sweet ways to use your penis in bed to give your partner the greatest pleasure each day.
This article will teach you a lot of things you may not know before now.
Before I continue, I want you to know that the penis stops growing at ages 18 or 19. If you’re already above these ages, your penis is unlikely to grow longer or gets thicker.
Don’t buy drugs that claim they can make your penis grow bigger or thicker. Most are scams. There is no scientific research to support such claims.
A study published in the journal Psychology of Men and Masculinity found that men are concerned about their penis sizes than their partners.
There’s another important point I’ll like to note before I proceed. This article isn’t written for a man who has a micropenis.
A micropenis is an abnormally small penis that’s less than 2 inches when fully erect. It’s often diagnosed at birth. Irregular hormone levels during the third trimester of pregnancy are what often cause this condition.
If you don’t have a micropenis and yours is just around 5 inches, then you can continue reading this informative and interesting article. This article is for you.
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Having a longer penis doesn’t lead to satisfying sexual experience
There’s a reason why 5-inch is the average penis length in the world today. It’s because 5-inch is the optimum size for women. I call it the perfect penis size. The perfect penis gives women the best sex.
Anything above 7 inches is too long.
A long penis doesn’t give satisfying sexual experience to women. The vagina’s length can’t be increased. Yes, the vagina can stretch itself to take a penis that’s wider. It can’t stretch itself to take a penis that’s longer.
The vagina expands itself to allow babies to pass through it during childbirth. Babies are larger than any penis, of course. Therefore, the vagina can take any penis that’s thicker than the average.
When the penis is too long, it makes lovemaking painful for the woman. A long penis can damage the cervix if it goes too deep.
A penis that’s too long isn’t good for women. That’s why it’s pointless to worry about having a longer penis.
You have the perfect penis if its length is within 4.5 – 5.5 inches when it’s erected. That means you can sexually satisfy any woman.
Having a 5-inch penis also means that your girlfriend will be comfortable with most sex positions. So, stop worrying about your penis size and start trying different sex positions.
A 5-inch penis is the perfect penis size you need to make any woman scream and enjoy making love with you. You’ll be able to have long sex sessions with your partner without leaving her sore.
It also means that you’ll be able to have more sex because your partner will always be ready for you to do it again. A man with a long penis can’t make love for 4 minutes before his partner starts asking him to stop.
If your penis size is within the range of 4.5 – 5.5 inches, most girls won’t want you to stop penetrating their vaginas after 20 minutes. Women will love to stay with you in bed if you have a perfect size.
The clit is the key
The clitoris is a powerhouse for pleasure. The clitoris is there to make a woman feel good. The fastest way to get any woman excited in bed is to know how to play with that clit.
It’s estimated that the clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings. That’s double of the nerve endings found in the penis.
Most women can’t reach orgasm without clitoral stimulation. For you to make your partner feel so good and excited in bed, all you need to do is learn how to play with the clit while having fun at the same time. You’ll learn how to do both in the latter part of this article.
What I want you to know is that the clitoris, which is the most exciting place to stimulate, isn’t even located deep inside the vagina.
That’s why longer penis doesn’t mean better pleasure for women. A 5-inch penis can get the job done with ease. You don’t need to go too deep. Going too deep will only cause pain for your partner.
So, is a 5-inch penis too small?
No, it’s not. A 5-inch penis is all you need to have a great sexual experience with your partner.
Why doesn’t penis size matter in bed?
As I’ve said above, the size of the penis doesn’t matter in bed. Why doesn’t it matter?
Whether your penis size is long or short, most women don’t reach orgasm during penetrative sex. They don’t. Women don’t reach orgasm because the penis is going in and out of their vagina.
The reason for orgasm is very different. Most men believe that intercourse is the key to sexual satisfaction for women. It is not.
In fact, outercourse is the key to sexual satisfaction for women.
Outercourse isn’t foreplay as many men believe it is.
Here are some examples of outercourse:
- Nipples licking and sucking
- Neck licking
- Oral sex
- Toe sucking
- Touching of erogenous zones
The feeling of warmth and comfort from a man is really the key to sexual satisfaction for most women.
A man’s penis isn’t a sexual hot-rod that will make any girl speak in tongues. Every woman needs more than the penis to reach orgasm. I feel more like the penis is only meant for men to feel to have their own sexual pleasure. Women don’t need the penis.
That is why the size of your penis doesn’t matter in bed. You need to give your woman more.
Make her comfortable. Support her emotionally and maybe financially. She should feel connected to you. Embrace her in bed. Give her sweet kisses and hugs. Don’t wait for her to ask you to get down there before you do.
Those are what matter in bed. Your penis is for your own fun. It’s not for your partner’s fun.
Learn to use your tongue to pleasure her
Most women would choose oral sex over vaginal sex. Oral sex stimulates the clitoris. Don’t forget that the clitoris is the key. The clitoris is where most of the fun lies.
The tongue feels better when it touches the clitoris than the fingers.
Good oral sex takes a while. You need to warm her up. Start with some hugs and kisses. Lick and suck her nipples. Make them hard.
Get her body in the mood. When her body is warm and feels ready, get down and stimulate her clitoris with your tongue.
Make her feel comfortable by putting some pillows under her back and butt.
Oral sex isn’t just licking her clit with your tongue. Oral sex also means lightly pulling her hair, massaging her nipples and scratching along her torso.
Keep refining your technique each time you give her oral sex. There are lots of different ways to perform it. I like licking, sucking, nibbling, kissing and even biting. Each feels differently.
As I noted above, don’t go straight for the clitoris. The clitoris is more of a closer than an opener. Getting started with the clitoris means you’ve robbed yourself of a special and nice way to end oral sex. Start from somewhere else and leave the clitoris to the end.
If you can give good oral sex, you can satisfy any woman in bed. You can make her moan and want sex with you every day.
When you know how to use your tongue properly to pleasure women, there’s no woman in this planet you won’t be able to sexually satisfy.
The best sex positions for a 5-inch penis
If you’re a guy with a 5-inch penis, I want you to know that some sex positions will please you and your partner at the same time.
Although most women don’t orgasm from penetrative sex, some positions help your penis hit the clitoris. These sex positions will enable you to use your penis well to satisfy any woman.
Check these positions below:
This sex position lets you really go deep into the vagina of your partner while at the same time touch her clitoris each time you penetrate. There must be a bed to do this sex position.
She lies on her back with her legs up in the air. You get between those legs and lift her waist a little bit up to enable you to reach every inch of her vagina.
Super tight doggy
This doggy style is super tight. It helps you both close to each other while you hit her G spot and clitoris at the same time. Super tight doggy also makes you feel amazing too. Make sure her legs are closed to resemble what you see in the above image.
Sideways smash is for partners who are a bit athletic. The position is a great workout. You can hit the clitoris from a 90-degree angle and find the G-spot. It also helps you pleasure yourself in the process.
You may need a sex pillow to rest your back on. Doing this position without a pillow means you won’t be able to do it for long. But the short time you do it would be very exciting and satisfying for you and your partner.
Jacked Up Cowgirl
In this position, your woman does all the work. You relax and enjoy every moment. You need a pillow under your lower back to help her find the clitoris and G-spot. Your 5-inch penis goes deep into her and comes out nicely.
The position allows you to sit back and enjoy the complete view of your partner. You watch her bounce on you. Jacked Up Cowgirl is one of my favorite sex positions.
Couples I know who have sex in this position say they like it very much. I highly recommend the position for partners who find it difficult to reach orgasm during penetrative sex.
There’s a reason why Doggystyle is one of the best sex positions in the world. Lots of couples like it. Double doggy is that Doggystyle that unleashes the porn-star attitude in any woman.
Double doggy hits all the right places in and outside the vagina at once. It hits the clitoris when you come out to go back in. It touches the G-spot as it goes deep. It gives the woman fun. Double doggy makes the quietest women moan in bed.
With this sex position, you can have a memorable sexual experience with your girl and satisfy her at the same time.
These sex positions are great for any man with a 5-inch penis. After trying this sex positions with your partner, you won’t have to ask yourself if your penis size matter in bed again because you’ll be able to satisfy any woman with your penis.
Men with flaccid penis grow bigger when erect
A flaccid penis is a penis at rest. The penis spends most of its time flaccid. In other words, a penis is flaccid when it’s not erected.
There are two kinds of flaccid penises:
A shower is a flaccid penis that’s close to its full length when erected. A woman knows what she’s getting into before having sex with a man with a shower penis.
Showers show in those grey sweatpants. A girl could want to view and analyze the penis just like men would want to see those hard nipples in wet t-shirts.
You can say a penis is a shower if it’s 4.5 inches when flaccid, and 5.5 inches when erect.
Let’s talk about growers.
Growers surprise women. They do something I like to call a “stealth attack.”
A grower penis can grow from 2.5 inches to 5 inches. That’s like double. That sometimes amazes women who feel like your penis is small. They feel like your penis just grew from nowhere to scare them.
I’m a grower, and I like it. Being a grower makes life easy for me. Both showers and growers have their benefits.
There’s nothing to be shy about whether you have a grower or shower penis. As long as your penis is 5-inch when it’s erected, you have the power to satisfy any woman. Your 5-inch penis is that power, of course.
Size doesn’t really matter in bed. What matters is doing the right thing that makes your partner scream your name and want you to do it all over again.
I believe you’re now armed with the right information to please the woman of your dreams. You can now feel like a KING in bed. You can now dominate any woman and make her feel on top of the world.
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